Affairs and porn addictions attack an integral piece of a healthy marriage: trust.
The betrayer finds themselves in a cycle of shame and lies- while the betrayed suffers from rejection and loss of emotional safety in the relationship…
Can the marriage really be restored?
We believe it can be, especially if both spouses are willing to put in the hard work to become healthy and fight for one another.
Join us and our good friends Gabriel and Debbie Mayes as we unpack their raw journey of porn addiction and marital affairs to freedom and connection after years of infidelity and porn addiction.
With vulnerability and practically, the Mayes share major keys that can help heal the broken trust your relationship and family needs in order to rebuild.
PART 1: THE MAYES STORY
Gabriel & Debbie share their story from a past of childhood exposure, church hurt, adultery, porn and sex addiction of over 10 years through complete brokenness and onto wholeness, freedom, connection and radical restoration in their marriage and family.
PART 2:THE CHEATER’S HEALING JOURNEY
Hear what steps and tools Gabriel used as he healed past hurts, broke addiction, got free from porn and took servant roles with his wife and family.
PART 3:THE CHEATED ON’S JOURNEY
Debbie shares how she forgave Gabriel, overcame some of her own co-dependency, worked on rebuilding trust, and how they became physically intimate again.
QUESTIONS THAT WE ANSWER
How do I forgive my spouse after an affair or porn addiction?
How do I heal from the rejection I feel after my spouses affair?
How do I own up to my mess and rebuild trust with my spouse after they found out about my porn addiction?
How do we rebuild physical intimacy after an affair or addiction to porn?
How do I know my spouse is being honest about their healing journey from porn or past affairs?
I don’t know how to forgive myself after breaking apart my family, where do I start?
How did my upbringing or first experiences with sex influence my now sex addiction?
How do I heal from trauma that impacted my view of sex?
What’s the difference between trust and forgiveness?
How do I let our children know about my spouses affair?
How can we move forward together without the affair or porn addiction hanging over our marriage?